Her fight is almost over

[shrimpman steve]

As most know, mom has been battaling aggressive cancer for the last year. She has neared the end of her fight as we just moved her to hospice. She is afraid and in pain and we are now praying for a quick end to her fight. We have told her it's ok to let go and start her next journey. But as she was all her life she is stubborn and is having trouble letting go. She is now sedated (I hope until the end). I am 47 and lucky enough not to have lost anyone close to me so this is doubly hard.

We have decided that when she leaves her body we will have her cremated and scattered across her favorite place on earth, Disney.

I just wanted to thank all who have kept us in their prayers. Especially my brothers Gerry and Joey for all their support.

Please pray for a speedy end, or beginning.

[rumster]

Both your mom and yourself are in my families prayers. Death is unfortunately a part of life. Be at peace knowing that her suffering will be over. Sorry for the pain that both of you are experiencing.

[MVP]

Steve,
Very sorry to hear that the end is near for your Mom. I will be saying a prayer for her and your family to help get you through this difficult time

[Joey Dah Fish]

Steve I as you know have been praying for her every day. I will continue this and include you and your family in my prayers as well. I can't even imagine the pain you feel for her. Gods speed to a quick resolution. Lots of love and prayers coming your and your moms way. PS you still suck as a black fisherman :eek: :p

[Scotty]

Steve, keeping you and your Mom in my prayers

[Capt. Lou]

Sorry to hear , prayers sent.

[the1jonc]

Sorry to hear this.

You, your Mom and your family are in my thoughts.

[bulletbob]

Steve , you mentioned your age, and that you had yet to experience this.. Its little comfort I am sure, but understand that many,if not most of us have been through this, and we understand, and really do know what you are dealing with. Its one of those rare times, that others can really say truthfully,
"I know what you are going through"
Many of us older guys have lost both parents, both inlaws, brothers, sisters, even children in some cases.. As we grow older we go though it more often too. Always a tough thing to endure, as you well know.

Its no fun, its something none of us wants to deal with, but we see it through,we grieve, and then we move on. You are not alone, its a universal part of life. We see our loved ones pass on, and then one day we face our own mortality... Its just life.
All of us on this board wish your mom, yourself, and your family all the best... Godspeed.... bob

[NJ Dave]

Shrimpy,
Been there and it just sucks. Dont know whats worse, watching them suffer and the sickness from the chemichals or watching them die.
I will say the end is a good thing as this disease is nothing anyone wants to live with but the end is the end and ots not any easier.
Just remember the good times you had with mom those days before x mas.
Prayers sent....
Sorry for your loss.

[Fin Reaper]

So very sorry Steve. You have our support prayers

[njfisherman1975]

Hey shrimpy...I have not had the pleasure of meeting you but I have been reading your posts about your mom. I am sure this is a very hard time for you and your family. Prayers go out to you, your mom and all of the people she met in her lifetime. Stay strong...

[ALS Mako]

Sorry for your situation. it's always hard loosing a loved one. God speed. our prayers are with you and your family

[shrimpman steve]

The support from you all is very comforting

We thank you

[SandsharkPolar]

Shrimpy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Just always remember even on your darkest days there will be a Angel by your side to guide you. God Bless You

[Blackfish Doug]

I'm sorry to hear about your mom's situation I know it's a tough thing to go through. I went through that twice I hope all goes well for you. God bless your family & your Mom my prayers go out to all of you.

[Reel Class]

So Sorry to hear this steve. It's never easy - just realize she will be free of pain and suffering.. You and your family have our thoughts and prayers.

[tropics]

Steve sorry to hear that, I lost my Mom back in March. Hang in there.

[SplitShot]

Hi Steve... went through the same thing with my mom... nothing tougher..a big hug to stay strong

[thehammer]

Steve, as you know, I went through this just 2 month ago with my son David, I can relate to what you are going through. It SUCKS ! Please know that my prayers & thoughts are with you and your family during these rough times. Her peace is near God bless your mom & your family.

Tom :(

[Reelron]

Not much I can say that hasn't already been said buddy. Just know that I am saying a little prayer for the peacful passing of your Mom.

[bunker dunker]

I will keep your mom and your family in my prayers steve.God bless

[Art Berkman]

Hoping for the Best!

Prayers Sent!!!

[GDubya07]

Sorry to hear that and Thoughts and Prayers sir -

GDubs-

[hartattack]

Prayers sent.

[TomKaye]

We've only conversed via PM Steve, but I feel like I know you.
I was fortunate ( I guess) to say to both of my parents, you've done a good job, you can let your kids go. May God Bless her, you, & your family.
Thoughts & prayers are with you.

[John D.]

Steve,

I am sorry to hear you are going through this. I went through a very similar situation with my Mom in 2010--very aggressive lung cancer (which usually is slow progressing, although resistant to many chemo regimens). I was 39 at the time, and really the first time I had to deal with loss.

Hospice was the best thing for us, it allowed Mom to go out with dignity and comfort for the final days. Emotionally, it is hard, and will be hard, but take comfort she is going on to her next journey surrounded by her loved ones. You are doing all the right things in letting her know it's ok for her to move on.

Stay strong, I am praying for you. The emotional loss and pain is just our way of remembering those whom were so special to us.

John

[jmurr711]

no sarcastic quips praying for you & the family. Stay strong brother

[Boston Pete]

Steve,

I'm so sorry to hear this, please know you're all in my thoughts and prayers. I went thru the same thing with my dad, he wouldn't let go either and fought till the end....hardest thing I ever went through and think about him everyday.

Stay strong brother.

Peter

[Grateful Dad]

Steve, prayers sent for your mom, and I hope the end is peaceful. You've been there for her and that's what matters most.

[Tuna Tales]

Steve:

No words can describe your pain and sorrow...just try and smile and remember the good times and be thankful you had those...

Best wishes to you and your Mom at this trying time...hoping for the best!


Joe T.

[jlrotary]

Keeping you and your family in my prayers and thoughts.

[Dollar Bill]

So sorry to hear this Steve, you and your family are in my prayers.

[Foul Hook]

Do not look forward to what might happen tomorrow; the same everlasting Father who cares for you today will take care of you tomorrow and everyday.

Either He will shield you from suffering, or He will give you the unfailing strength to bear it.

Be at peace and know He is there.

[PAFireGuy]

The Hospice people are very special people and take very good care of people in your moms condition.
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

[makosnax]

Stay strong, I went thru this four years ago and know the pain you're in. Hoping her journey takes her to a better place.

[Garone Custom Rods]

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Steve.

[dales529]

Steve,
Our thoughts are certainly with you at this difficult time, Been there and hopefully Hospice has started the pain management and their staff will see her through in a caring and comfortable manner as they typically do.

[Fish Stix]

Steve, so sorry. She'll be in a better place. Thinking of you and your family during this tough time. Let me know if you need anything.

Kris

[Blackfish Bobby]

Keepin you and your Mom in our thoughts and prayers Steve.

[shrimpman steve]

She won't give up. Got here Saturday night and hospice nurse guessed not much then 24 hours. Here it is late Monday and she has not let go. She is now sedated 24/7 so at least she is comfortable. We are lucky enough to sit with her and reminisce amongst ourselves, we even laugh at times. It is tough looking at her just lying there. I have said my good bye and accepted the inevitable, but as usual, she will have the last say and decide when she is ready.

Once again, thanks for all the support.

[bunker dunker]

keep the good times in your hearts Steve and know that someday you will see her again and she will be thankful that you were there with her.God bless

[NoWorries]

God bless your Mom and prayers sent for you and your family in these difficult times. Your memories of her will last forever

[Taxman]

Stay Strong Steve

[tautog]

Hopefully her suffering will be over soon. God bless.

[PeteyHD]

Steve my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Stay strong my friend. My grandmother was in hospice and they did an outstanding job making sure she was comfortable and pain free. She will be in a better place soon once she is ready.

[Jay]

My prayers are with you and your family. God bless.

[BOOMER43]

Prayers go out to you and your family.

[Perfesser]

Steve.
I've lost my dad, one of my best friends (who took me on his boat for my first-time fishing experience) and my son---nothing will ever take a loved one's place. You'll think about your mom everyday, miss her all the time, but eventually will know that the time you spent with her (and thinking about her when you weren't with her) will be enough. My thoughts and heart-filled sympathies to you and your family.
Jerry Olson

[DaveTats]

Sorry to hear this Shrimpman. Stay strong during these tough times.

[Quanman]

Sorry to hear the sad news Steve. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

[Bison81]

Went through this with my Mom as well. Prayers sent.

[rocknreel]

Sorry to hear about your mom..I hope your prayers get answered. All the best.

[shrimpman steve]

Prayers answered. Mom is in a better place