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Fishermancraig
06-27-2023, 10:28 AM
Wanted some peoples perspectives here:

Was fishing a 50 passenger 2 day offshore trip in Florida. I was the only individual in the stern jigging. I didn't need the help but the mates were helpful and frequently unhooked the fish i caught and bled them and put them into my cooler so that they became familiar with the specific jig i was using. I only used the SAME exact jig - never changed it. It was a prized jig for me and was costly and had traveled to many countries with me (but it wasnt irreplaceable).*

At one point, I hooked into something big and broke off. Probably from some line fatigue. The individual to my left noted he thought i hooked into something big because drag was ripping out. When it broke off, I lost the jig. So i commented to a couple guys to my left and to the mate to keep a look out*if someone lands a big fish with my jig.

Lo and behold some 20 min later some guy from the bow walks down to the stern with a large grouper (15 lbs?) and it has my jig hanging down the side of the mouth, to which i exclaim "hey thats my jig". He look dumbfounded but remains unconvinced and just continues his business in the stern. Then, a couple other guys in the stern also commented that it was my jig, to which the guy who landed the grouper commented (rightly so), but it was he that landed the fish (seemingly implying that the jig was now his?)

It was only when the mate returned and recognized my jig that i went to his fish and plucked the jig from his Grouper, without waiting for his acknowledgement.*

My question here is technically, he landed the fish, and so the jig is his. But I feel that if i didn't have the other fishermen and especially the mate to verify it was my jig, I would*not have been able to reclaim my lost jig without there being some confrontation. So what is the line between technicality and courtesy in the etiquette of reclaiming a lost jig?

(attached photo does not include the specific grouper)

Dclark2
06-27-2023, 10:41 AM
Only a SCUMBAG would try to keep your Jig.................

tjd24
06-27-2023, 11:10 AM
No question.
I would have returned the jig, especially with the ownership confirmation from the Mate & fellow fishermen. You did the right thing to reclaim it.

1captainron
06-27-2023, 11:30 AM
Maybe in His mind he thought you were going to say the fish was yours because it had your jig in it......I would have just said, I lost it you got it, can I at least get my jig back.
Sadly, common courtesy is becoming a thing of the past with all the me me shit going on.

Fishermancraig
06-27-2023, 11:42 AM
Maybe in His mind he thought you were going to say the fish was yours because it had your jig in it......I would have just said, I lost it you got it, can I at least get my jig back.
Sadly, common courtesy is becoming a thing of the past with all the me me shit going on.

I thought of this possibility. But I got the impression he also felt that the jig was also rightfully his now. technically it is, because if he hadnt caught the fish the jig would be lost. But if i didn't have the mate to verify my statement I wonder if i would have been able to retrieve the jig.

shrimpman steve
06-27-2023, 01:38 PM
Common courtesy is out the window these days. I would have given it back no questions asked

Captain Rich
06-27-2023, 01:50 PM
Next time come jigging in Palm Beach !!:D:D:D (it was your jig !)

Papasown
06-28-2023, 07:01 AM
I have met many good people/fishermen & women over the years and common courtesy would normally pervail with the person handing you back your jig immediately after confirmation that it is yours.
Recently, my friends were fishing on a head boat out of PP, and a passenger lost his upscale rod and reel. My friend snagged the outfit a short time later and brought it directly to the man that lost it. He was so happy to see his setup again, that he bought 2 tickets for another trip for my friend and his wife. Well done !!
Remember, what goes around, comes around.......

Detour66
06-28-2023, 01:32 PM
He should have given you your jig back. I've have had not so great experiences on Fla party boats also. Nothing like "Dirty Jersey" party boats!

the directa
06-29-2023, 08:44 AM
Just a matter of being a nice person or not. No set rules apply