A brother A fisherman A Loss

[dales529]

Yesterday I lost my brother to cancer, as it was expected the finality sometimes is worse than the process which is where i find myself.

Fisherman/ women:
We are a fine sort and many of our trips include:
- the initial discussion / plan
- the anticipation / discussions of the date planned
- the weather checks (now at my age the dock river tide checks to see how easy or hard to board the boat LOL)
- the reports but who really cares as you are going anyway so your date WILL be better!
- the years of discussion of past and future trips

Bottom Line is its all Great and I shared that with my brother for many years which I will always cherish.
Like most we were far from perfect together in life, family issues etc but come the fishing day we were one in the same as you leave the crap behind.

In clearing my sadness and saying goodbye he WAS / IS a steward of the sea, a fisherman that fish would respect, a fisherman that any fisherman would respect and a brother I respect.

Fair Winds at your back, calm seas and i will miss you.

[capt74]

My condolences Dales.

[hartattack]

Heartfelt condolences Dave.

[shrimpman steve]

Dave, I am very sorry for your loss.

May he have fair winds and following seas

[Rocky]

In my thoughts and prayers.

[dakota560]

Dave I knew your brother was battling medical issues, so very sorry to hear of his passing. It's never easy but after reading your post, it's obvious you're a better person having him in your life as he was for having you in his. In the end, the memories keep us going and allow us to keep loved ones where it matters most, in our hearts and in our minds. He'll always be with you my friend. May he rest in peace, condolences for your loss and we'll keep you and your family in our prayers.

[Pennsy Guy]

So sorry for your loss but he will never be gone; with all the good time memories together you have he will live in your heart.

[Fin Reaper]

Somehow “Im sorry” never does covers it but I’ll say it anyway. Im very sorry for your loss Dave. Please take comfort in knowing we are all here for you should you need us.

[Brewlugger]

Sorry for your loss Dales.

[Detour66]

So sorry for your loss.

[Foul Hook]

I regularly fish with my brother. Very saddened by you loss. God bless

[Gerry Zagorski]

Sorry to hear this Dave, my thoughts and prayers to you and your family...

Your words add a lot of perspective. Although what seems like wasted motion like planning dates, endless phone calls are we going or not, did they bite yesterday can be tiring and seem distracting, they're another opportunity to talk with your buds. We're all not going to be around forever and they'll come a time when we'll miss those calls...

[Down Deep Sportfishing]

From everyone here, our deepest condolences to you and your family.

[AndyS]

Sorry for your loss, fair winds and following seas.

[SHAMROCK EDDIE]

Condolences to you and your family

[1captainron]

Sorry for your loss Dave....

[Duffman]

So sorry for your loss Dave. Ive been there so I know your pain.

Anything you need please feel free to reach out.

[bunker dunker]

very sorry for your loss Dave,prayers sent.

[Capt Sal]

So sad. Life is short so live it to the fullest.

[CaptMarc]

Sorry for loss.

[hammer4reel]

Sorry for your loss

[rumster]

Sorry for your loss.

[kurtisb]

Sorry for your loss Dave. Glad you have good fishing memories!

[Capt Dave Bender]

Sorry for your loss dave

[RBC67]

Sorry for your loss may he RIP

[FASTEDDIE29]

Very sorry for your loss Dave! Man, Cancer sucks! Be strong brother!

[dales529]

From myself and family we cant thank you enough for all the kind words and support. It means a lot. You ALL validated my post of being a "fine sort" that goes for fisherman/ women and just good people.
I know most of you personally and have fished with many of you. Again you reached out when we were down and lifted us! Thanks it wont be forgotten.

Yet again this site Gerry created is much more than a fishing site but a hand in need and a brotherhood of many good people.

See you soon on the water!

[ALS Mako]

Dave. So sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and your family.

[Capt. Lou]

Sorry for your loss.

[BigRock44]

Condolences to you and your family.